Subjectivity, Morality, and Sexual Identity — A Morass of Confusion

Increasingly, people are living by their guts or feelings, as opposed to attempting to reason things out. Fits the mold of the times in which we live.

In today’s world, if you feel gay, it is okay to be gay. If you were born female, but think you are male, it is okay. Ditto if you were born male but believe you are male. Morality is subjective, not objective.

What exactly will we do on the day a teenager believes he or she in reality is not human?

I have nothing against gay people. I believe people feel gay for two reasons — mixing of male and female genes over time, and resulting increase in emotional or gender confusion; or spiritual connection with spirits seeking to foster homosexual or lesbian activity (this is biblical but I choose not to digress) on earth.

I love gay people. I do not believe, however, that a gay lifestyle is original plan of man’s Creator. Regardless of warnings which occur within context of Christian beliefs, gay people have a right to choose to be gay.

It is evident to any reasonable person that neither of homosexuality or lesbianism can, outside of science, maintain life on earth. If we allow for procreation to be via sex only, and if every person on this earth were to become homosexual or lesbian, it would take no more than about 150 years for mankind to become extinct. Marriage as defined then as “union between male and female man” is definition of how life is maintained on earth via natural means. Without any thoughts as to implications of redefinition of marriage, societies are rushing heedlessly headlong down precipice of confusion for future generations.

Do we really think a society devoid of gender identity is evolution that makes for better societies? Any thoughts in this direction are rooted in false hope.

It would have been a better solution for marriage terminology to remain domiciled within context of spirituality or religious institutions and for all governments to issue civil union certificates to all sexual unions — heterosexual, homosexual, or lesbian. That way, marriage as an institution remains exactly what it is, a spiritual phenomenon, a recognition of how life is maintained on earth.

Yet with all of this messing with eternal principles or definitions, meaningful lasting peace and joy continue to elude our societies. Even gay people experience divorce.

I see confluence of good actions, right actions, noble actions creating a better present and future for us all. What I see is not false hope. It is rooted in truth, rooted in reality, rooted in evidence which while lost to some remains evident to me.

I see, as such am filled with hope.



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Oghenovo Obrimah, PhD

Educator and Researcher, Believer in Spirituality, Life is serious business, but we all are pilgrims so I write about important stuff with empathy and ethos